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Getting out of my own way

4/9/2018

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I'm six months out of my old life. Why do I keep setting up situations that could lead me to slide back into it?
 When I decided it was time to stop teaching and working in my old job, I originally thought I'd stick it out until the end of the academic year. Then, I was going to hold out until the start of 2018.  I made it until the end of October.  This means that 4/25/18 will be the official six month mark of my leaving.

I told myself that I would, at a minimum, give myself a year to decide if I wanted to go back to teaching. Yet today I sent an email declining an interview for a job I applied for about ten days ago. 

One part of my reasoning in applying for the job was that it was for graduate courses in my discipline--that's something I never got to do before. I looked at it as kind of a bucket list item when I applied and I reasoned that they probably wouldn't even contact me for an interview. When they did, though, I started questioning why I even applied in the first place. Did I really want to sign up for a job teaching 15-20 students online in a completely standardized course where I made up none of the discussion questions and had no input on the assessments whatsoever? At the pay rate, that's about $250 a week for a ten week course.  If I only have ten students, that's $25/week per student--and I know that I'll spend more than than an hour per student given the grading load and the interaction in the discussion board.

I talked to some people who teach for the institution at the grad level, as well as a student at the grad level in my field there, and determined that I was setting myself up for disappointment.  The student tried to change my mind, pointing to the fact that the courses are pre-set and that the readings were relatively light--two ideas that actually swayed me to not pursue toe position further. 

Looking more closely at my motivation to apply and I realized the ad came out right before Amazon announced that Kindle Scout was being discontinued. My plan with Elegant Freefall was to leverage Scout to get the book to new readers and hopefully see more exposure. I didn't think I'd win my campaign--that wasn't my ultimate goal. But, I hoped that it would give me some effortless and free marketing even if I didn't win.  

Now I have to step up and do my own marketing once I'm done with the book.  And, that's part of the reason I promised myself that I would give myself a year away from the safety net of teaching. I am an addict to the validation that a teaching position gives you--at least it does in tiny doses when the students are not complaining about what a horrible teacher you are or in those moments where you craft a good post that shows the years of training you have or you can point to an article you wrote and had published somewhere as "proof" you're good enough to teach the next round of graduate students. 

I've taken a couple of other hits, recently, including an odd interaction with someone about an author event they wanted me to attend.  It turns out they confused me with another writer in Arkansas.  So, I know I'm looking for validation and the ad came out in a vulnerable moment.

I thought about the job all weekend as we drove to Wynne to see Dani's dad and her grandma (who is turning 90 soon). We talked about it, I emailed with people who know what the position is like, and today after I picked up Sophie from the boarder and took her walking, went to Wal-Mart, and had lunch, I emailed the recruiter and gracefully declined the interview.

The friend/colleague/grad student who was talking through it with me emailed me this morning to ask "What could it hurt?" to take the job. I have a lot of responses:
  • I would be breaking a deal I made with myself.
  • I would be setting up roadblocks to me actually getting more writing done. Once EF is done and released, Book 4 of The Olivia Chronicles, titled Whitby, will get under way.  If I'm distracted by trying to do a good job and get validation from that, I'll never get any marketing or work done for myself.
  • Six days a week is the minimum for an online course. That's head space and time that I'm not giving myself, Dani, or Sophie. I spent 14 years always online, halfway listening to conversations, working in hotel rooms on vacation, grading in the car. The money won't make any difference to me--the time will.
  • Sometimes, fantasies are better than reality. The more I thought about what I wanted from a graduate class experience and what would likely be the reality, the sadder I got.  I'll put it this way: I've taught American Literature at the 300 level on ground and online.  The online version in no way lives up to the on ground one. And, when I realize that most MA students in Literature in online programs are there to beef up their K-12 teaching power, that doesn't appeal to me either. It's kind of like why I never moved to New Orleans. The fantasy of it won't match reality.

What do I have to gain by NOT doing the interview and NOT sliding back into my dysfunctional, co-dependent relationship with teaching?
  • Read Lara McElderry's perfectly timed blog "The Importance of Taking Chances."
  • At some point I realized that I should just pull the 10-15 hours I could expect to spend teaching a class and schedule specific tasks related to one of my writing projects. So, today I'll be setting up a very clear revision schedule for the remaining chapters I have in Elegant Freefall.
  • I also need to set up a specific marketing plan, since Kindle Scout is no longer an option.
  • Self-validation is really all that matters.
  • When I think about my "vision" of what a graduate instructor would do for students, I realize that there are ways to accomplish those things without teaching a class.  Specifically, I can add to the conversation by sharing work in an open access way. That's a huge undertaking and project, and I need to start mapping out how I would do that. I think about Paul Reuben's Perspectives in American Literature--how many of us has he touched through his website?
  • I want to fully explore my new "independent scholar" status. 
  • Finally, someone else out there needs this spot for career development far more than I do. They also might need the money.  So, hopefully I'm helping someone else out.

In short, going back is the safe thing. As uncomfortable as I claim going back to teaching would be, it's still more comfortable than the risks of doing what I set out to do.  The devil you know is still the devil.
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Angel link
4/12/2018 01:56:25 pm

By the way, I directly emailed the recruiter and withdrew my candidacy on Monday. I got an email reminder today to do my video interview.

The video interview is part of what led me to realize this position would disappoint me. In my last job, I did faculty recruitment and hiring for the departments that I staffed (and for some I didn't as a favor to my boss). Candidates appreciated the time I took to talk to them as human beings, and I appreciated getting to know them in our conversations.

At this point in my life, I'm not willing to share my time with a boss who doesn't want to take the time to have a real conversation.

I certainly don't want to spend time with a recruiter who can't bother to return an email or stop a reminder about an impersonal video interview.

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